How Do You Raise A Child To Be Bilingual?

So, you're wondering why I think it is possible to raise a bilingual child, especially if you don't know a second language!  I know it is fully possible, why?  Because my parents spoke only English, however I was completely fluent in three languages by the time I graduated from high school, even graduating top of my class in the foreign language classes.

If you'd like to raise your children to be bilingual, you'll have to show some interest in the language and culture that you'd like them to learn.  Start early, as close to newborn as possible!  Learn some vocabulary, nouns especially.  Look up a couple of nouns, maybe start with the food groups, sports, holidays, numbers... and use those words in your daily life.  When you ask your child if he wants an apple, say apple, then repeat it in the second language.  Do this often, eventually you'll not only be able to think of the words in a heartbeat, but your child will also be familiar and accustomed to the words!  Next, use simple phrases in your daily lives; wake up, eat, let's go, what's up...  Let your child become familiar with these words.  When the words are familiar and recognized, the children will then have a much easier time understanding them in context with a fluent speaker.  Just think about it!  How many words do you already know that are foreign, however you are completely familiar with them and can pick them out of a sentence spoken in a foreign language; rendez-vous, hors d'ouevres, hasta luego, adios...

Another important part of learning is immersion.  I had no problem being immersed in languages because I grew up in close proximity to Montreal.  It may be a challenge, though, for most monolingual parents to find a way of immersing their children in the language.  Look around in your community for groups that have many bilingual participants.  Buy books in the second language that are also available in the primary language.  Watch videos in the language.  Eat at restaurants that specialize in the foods of that culture.  There are lots of opportunities out there!